英语翻译麻烦擅长英语的亲给翻译一下,满意的事后一定加高分,\x05Too often we complain about

英语翻译
麻烦擅长英语的亲给翻译一下,满意的事后一定加高分,
\x05Too often we complain about others not listening,pretending that we ourselves can’t make any mistakes,yet in our hearts we know that many of the mistakes we make come about because we haven’t listened carefully enough.We get things wrong because we haven’t quite understood what someone meant when they were talking to us.Anyone who has ever taken the minutes of a long meeting will know how hard it is to remember---despite the benefit of notes---exactly what everyone said.But success depends on getting things right---and that means listening.
\x05Listening is not the same thing as hearing; it is not an effort actively.It demands attention and concentration.It may mean guessing the speaker for additional information or for further explanation --- it is always better to ask than to continue regardless and get things wrong.However,if you allow your mind to think something else carelessly (freely),even for a few minutes,you’ll miss what the speaker is saying------ probably at the very moment when he or she is saying something very critical or the key things.And not having heard,you won’t know you’ve missed anything until it’s too late.
\x05The most common bad habit we have is to start thinking of what we are going to say about the subject long before the other speaker has finished.We then stop listening.Even worse,this often adds rudeness to less attention,as once you have decided what to say there is a fair chance you will interrupt to say it.Good listeners don’t interrupt.In fact it is often worth explaining the main idea of what you have just been told before going on to make your own points.Nobody is hurt by this and it shows that you have listened well.
\x05Above all be patient and accept that many people are not very good communicators.It’s helpful to remember that the ways people move and position while they are speaking can reveal or express a great deal about what they are saying.It is also important that you should put yourself in the other person’s place,both intellectually and emotionally; it will help you to understand what they are getting at and form a reaction.But don’t be too clever.Faced with a know-all,many people keep quiet because they see no point in continuing.

我们常常抱怨他人不倾听自己诉说,自以为不会犯错,然而在我们的内心,我们知道我们犯的许多错都是由于听得不够仔细认真.我们做错事常常是因为在别人跟我们说话时,我们没有充分理解他们所说的意思.任何一个做过长时间会议记录的人都知道,想要确切地记住每个人所说的话--不管这个记录是否有价值--是有多么难.但是成功取决于把事情做对做好--那就是倾听.
倾听和听到不一样;它并不是勤奋和努力的结果.它需要专心致志,全神贯注.这可能意味着要去推测说话人的言外之意或深一层的意思--忽略它而继续听下去最后做错事,远不及去问清楚好.然而,如果你思想开小差,即使只有几分钟,就会赶不上说话人--可能就是他或她正说着某些重要内容的关键时刻.就是因为没有听到,当你知道你错过时,已为时已晚.
我们最常见的通病就是在其他人还没说完的很久之前就已经开始想着关于这个话题自己所要说的内容.然后我们就不再倾听.更糟的是,这不仅常常导致注意力不集中,还有粗鲁无礼,就像一旦你想好了要说什么,正好有个公平的机会,你就会打断别人说话来表达自己的观点.好的倾听者不会打断别人说话.其实,你在要陈述自己的观点之前,对上一位说话人的主要思想做一下说明,这是可取的做法.没人会觉得受到了伤害,这也显示了你之前听得很认真.
最重要的是,耐心对待,接受很多人都不是个善于交流的人这个事实.这能有助于我们记得,当人们在说话时提出提议和定位的方式,能透露或表达他们所说内容的大量信息.无论是思维上或是情感上的换位思考也都同样重要;这能帮助你明白人们所暗指的含义,并做出回应.但是别聪明过了头.面对着一个自称无所不知的人,许多人都保持沉默因为他们认为没有意义再继续聊下去.