英语翻译Modern life is a lot less to the advantage of friendship

英语翻译
Modern life is a lot less to the advantage of friendships and neighborliness than it used to be.The average American moves every five years.People drive straight into their garages,hire lawn services,hang out in their backyards instead of their front porches (前走廊).These days,neighbors don't even know each other's names.Good neighbors and good friends are a lot like electricity or running water:We don't know how much we depend on them until we don't have them.In fact,the authors of a recent book,Refrigerator Rights,claim that refrigerators are signs of close relationships--after all,you wouldn't snatch a drumstick(鸡腿) from the refrigerator of a stranger.The surprising thing is that all it takes to strengthen your relationship with friends and neighbors is respect for their feelings,concern for their property,and a helping hand when it's needed.Here's how to develop your relationships with two types of vitally important people in your life._________________.A true friend doesn't flee when changes occur.The sign of a good friend is one who stays true through it all--marriage,parenthood,new jobs,new homes,the losses.Just because situations change doesn't mean the person has to.Friendships fade away if there isn't an balance between the give and the take.So make sure you aren't being a burden toyour friends.Be sensitive to how much your friend can and can't offeryou--be it time,energy,or help -- and don't step over the line.Meanwhile,friendships that drain(耗尽) you will not last.If a friendship is out of balance in thisway,you'll need to talk the situation through.

现代生活是少了很多的优势,友谊和睦邻友好比它曾经是.美国人平均每五年要搬.人们开车直接进入车库,聘请草坪服务,挂在他们的后院,而他们的前廊（前走廊）.这些天,邻居不知道对方的名字.好邻居、好朋友很像电或自来水：我们不知道我们有多依赖他们,直到我们没有他们.事实上,作者最近出版了一本书,冰箱的权利,声称冰箱迹象的密切关系——毕竟,你不会把鸡腿从冰箱里的一个陌生人.令人惊奇的是,所有需要加强你与朋友和邻居是尊重自己的感情,关心他们的财产,并帮助在需要的时候.以下是如何发展的关系的2种类型的非常重要的人在你的生活._________________.一个真正的朋友不会逃跑时发生变化.签署的一个好朋友是一个谁是真实的这一切——婚姻,生育,新工作,新的家园,损失.由于情况的变化并不意味着此人.友谊消逝如果没有平衡的给予和接受.所以确保你不会成为负担你的朋友.敏感的多少,你的朋友可以和不可以为您提供——是它的时间,精力,或帮助——不要越线.同时,友谊,漏极（耗尽）你将不会持续.如果友谊是失去平衡,因此,你需要讨论情况通过.