我知道the way 后面可以 that,in which,不填.

我知道the way 后面可以 that,in which,不填.
【1】the way的一些用法.
I don’t like the way you speak to your mother.
That's the way she did it.
They didn’t do it the way we do now.
I won't talk to him the way my father did.
I fixed things the way (= as) he wanted
这些凭感觉,就可以知道意思了.只是与下面的真正的问题似乎有关而已.
【2】the day 的用法
Thousands of foreigners were attracted to the Shanghai World Expo the day it opened.
the day前面省略介词in,定语从句的when省略了.Expo the day (when/on which) it opened.
But you were always rebellious from the day that I began to know you.
自从我认识你们那天起,你们常是背叛上主.
为什么这一个句子是that呢?而且有人说“Grandpa adored grandma from the day they first met” the day
是省略了that

这里说的“the way/day + 从句”涉及到了表示一些方式、时间、处所的名词在前面加了the, each, every, some, one 以及其他数词等限定词后转化为副词性的问题. 一、“限定词+名词”作状语是一种常见的语法现象,但是仅限于表示时间、距离、方式、处所以及各种度量等概念的名词.例如： 　　1、表示时间　　    Wait a moment. 稍候　　    My brother called me from Shanghai last night.我的兄弟昨晚从上海打电话给我.　　2、表示距离　　    I couldn’t move a step further. 我连一步也走不动了.　　    John can walk five miles an hour.约翰一小时能步行五英里.　　3、表示方式　　    You can do it this way.你可以这样做.　　    All the other way, he won’t agree with you.完全相反,他不会同意你的.　　    Come this way, please.请这边走.　　4、表示度量　　    This box weighs five kilogram’s.这只箱子重五公斤.　　    The room measures five metres across.这房间有五米宽. 二、这类结构还可以整体出现在宾语的位置上,例如你所举的例子： I don't like the way you speak to your mother. （方式状语从句）Thousands of foreigners were attracted to the Shanghai World Expo the day it opened.（时间状语从句） 三、关于此类句子的属性 　1、“限定词 + 名词”用作复合连词,引导的是宾语从句.如：　　I won'ttalk to him (the way my father did). ——直接宾语    2、“限定词 + 方式名词”作宾语,后面的从句用以说明该抽象名词具体所指,因此是省略 that 的同位语从句.如：　　They didn't do it the way (that we do now).    3、“限定词 + 名词”作宾语,后面的从句是省略关系词 when、where 或 in which的定语从句.如：　　I won't talk to him the way (in which my father did).　　Thousandsof foreigners were attracted to the Shanghai World Expo the day (when it opened).　　This is the place (where I used to visit) 事实上,后两种说法只是理论上的分析,实践中很少使用. 四、除此之外,这类结构还可能引导状语从句,如： 　　Each place you come, you will be well entertained. 每到一地,你都会受到款待.　　Themoment I saw you, I knew you were angry with me. 我一看到你, 就知道你在生我的气.