How to break through the deadlock?

How to break through the deadlock?
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如何打破僵局?
In fact, being popular is familiar with interpersonal relationships in a radius of operation. In need "round" Yuantong some time, will be able to complex human relations, to obtain permits smooth life. This technology is good at being four games, and its function can be summed up in 10 words: mediate disputes, resolve contradictions, to avoid embarrassment, to break the deadlock.
From the perspective of the initiative said that a well-behaved people exposed ugly smoothed things over, take the initiative to fight for the number of field; others into a dilemma, take the initiative to rescue, to give him to find a higher level so that he won the next Taiwan.
From the passive side, self-inflicted mistakes, we should be good at fighting, to justify itself; unfortunately fall into the hands of social deadlock,breaking the ice cold market; with people is likely to produce unpleasant, the more indispensable and and "slurry" Let the other side lost little more face-saving, and maintain decent, thereby to bring the issue to settle, or even change a bad thing for good.
For style, the story rather than have a good karma resources, less surgery Reconciliation
technical support, there will probably be a "Substandard works" is only to talk about and can not achieve the illusion of, at most, like soap bubbles, like the "one round. "
1. There has not been advised of the aircraft
No conflicts and disputes, interpersonal nothing on the market can chart, and less embarrassing impasse, and need not talk about mediation and that and. Instead, as long as there is these things, it inevitably Excuse me peacemaker have to significantly significant skill. In fact, as long as there Reconciliation
surgery, no advised not to open the frame, there is no swelling on the skin's death can not be untied.
Not finding fault in front with those who abuse quarrel disputes occurred, they will not understand the following facts: noise inextricably linked the two sides (including the provocative side), all hope that early assessments. However, because those who gather together to create the onlookers watching in the next, I would like to close all they could not. Thus, if the two sides become increasingly acute, the tone has become increasingly hard, and even the evolution of a scene for the scuffle. When the quarrel of the two sides kicked and beaten, while onlookers also do wall concept, indifferent, then it really make people feel a bit "sad."
This is not in the vehicle or the road of fighting, the presence is a workplace with colleagues Yes, this time, the two sides will want to fight: "The nature of these people are exposed out.
This shows that if you can come forward to rescue, they are grateful for your heart, certainly, as we do not Taotao continuous river, and your "human fruit" come to one place since Needless to say, when you need people to come to your rescue when people may be willing to charge the talking for you, you can also suffer from more flesh.
Be advised of this action I also do the frame, must have experience.
Not enough people fighting experience, I can not tell a good time to mediate, so the delay did not dare to come forward and left to mediate. For example, did not see the opportunity to mediate on the move, saying: "Hey, Hey, you two should have been stopped had!"
One may凶巴巴said: "What are you two? Pick a quarrel is him!"
Another may catch the tail, then, critical to say; "what should have been stopped? Overdue What does it mean?"
If only one of them said: "Hey, do not hit!"
This, in turn, easily be mistaken for another favor, and were advised not to stop the one they may believe that they themselves have been as big bad guys.
Then, to mediate a good time to what is it?
① If both sides sit in situ, when one of them suddenly raised his voice to stand up when;
② If the parties are standing in situ, in which a sudden step forward, when the notice is about the use of force.
This time, the men immediately and put an end to notice the use of force, and not be in favor of any party. The problem is, there is no fighting experience, it is difficult to distinguish between such a force. Thus, the two sides on the confrontation, and has already begun in the scuffle when approached to mediate, the possibility of挨揍quite large. Precisely because of this, the onlookers and the general was not easily approached to mediate.
If you can not open the two sides before the use of force, to mediate the essentials, must be of the following methods.
People have to mediate挨揍consciousness, and then forcibly squeeze himself between the two men. At the same time, as far as possible domineering shouted out: "stop!" This could be the "池鱼之殃" to minimize the lowest level.
Remember: Do not be completely avoided in order to "池鱼之殃" and wait until the fighting ended when approached to mediate, to do so on would be too cruel.
While the winner may be a different matter, at least to bear the defeat of those who think about flesh pain tolerance, timeliness is critical juncture out to be a reconciliation, in order to defeat those who play the role of God the ambulance, it would be an act of boundless beneficence.
As seen in together, to see someone else fights, fighting, even if we can control and no matter,坐山观虎斗like peep show to see if it too had no conscience. What's more, you go to mediate, mediation, so that quarrels and fights both sides can feel there is a ray of warmth: not everyone is oblivious to all this, ruthless.
One thing is certain: If you move a knife去劝aircraft gun, then you will in all likelihood "wounded in action." Smooth as a person, if not help to circle the field, then play "Chuan" find someone to help.
2. Qiao tongue dead knots untied
Most of the disputes in the use of force is not so exciting, are generally text drama. Such as family disputes, disputes between relatives and friends, colleagues of disputes between the disputes between neighbors, disputes between strangers. If you do not be resolved in a timely manner, no doubt will affect the mutual relations and social stability and unity. So grasp the mediation of disputes and resolve contradictions in the language of art is very important. Smooth things over many cases articulate their implementation.
①动真情, round in well-advised in with Granville.
Chen conflict with a movie star, turned away. Chen砸门wanted to relieve the anger in my heart. Chen, an old police officer said: "The good brother, your heart I can understand, we know that you are her husband, so this is your home. But if you create here what an unpleasant, it will let other people have excuses, there is another point, a place of refuge the Spring Festival holiday, once created an unpleasant, we should have called other police officers, which you say there is no home? Which one do not want to have a reunion years? you can think twice. "
The language of the old police seemingly simple, yet full of Chen's understanding of the situation, "This is your home" This is just a word, both expressed their deep sympathy for Chen, but also contains a certain Star accused of inappropriate behavior. At the same time, the old police, then also full of concern for his colleagues, that is, if Chen created unpleasant things is likely to make his comrades had bad Spring Festival. It is obvious that the language of the old police also full of a "Do not do illegal things" means. It is the old police this financial situation in the language of the rationale caused Chen's thinking, so that Chen gave up impulsive behavior, which subsided this may violate the law disputes.
② eliminate misunderstanding, something good to discuss.
Some of the disputes because of misunderstandings caused by, so as long as that line from, we can eliminate misunderstandings and resolve contradictions. Guangzhou City and the town with several pipe IPPF cadres to work in private pharmacies check ~ family planning work. Pharmacy owner kicked up a row, led to mass hundreds of onlookers. At this time, party secretary of the town rushed to the pharmacy. He pharmacy boss said: "Let's discuss something good, noise can not solve the problem. Checks family planning work, it is the provisions of the city, you talk about the situation clearly, with our work. If you have difficulties, they do not violate the policy , we can help you to solve. "pharmacy owner listened, I thought I misunderstood the town cadres malicious, suddenly deflated, and recognizing their own mistakes, that tie in with the work, to undergo an examination. This contradiction is resolved.
③ Miao apologize to an amicable settlement.
Some conflicts or disputes on both sides desire to mediate, but the moment can not find the steps. Mediators can skillfully apologize on behalf of one party to another, thus giving rise to the other party moved to apologize and take the initiative to offer each other. This would effectively contribute to reconciliation between the two parties. Liang Xiaosheng famous writer in his book said such a thing, and his mother and neighbors and Lu Lu Auntie Auntie's son the size of the problem occurred because of land disputes, he understood the situation, first of all criticized the mother, Lu pointed out that his wife and In the window the size of the house then things can be understood, as his family, and no place to live. Liang Lu and then to his wife at home for his mother said something to apologize and good language.卢叔, Lu Liang Xiaosheng, then listened to his wife, one pulling one of his hands very emotionally said: "can not blame your mother, can not blame your mother." Beam size to the mother to admit that he does not quarrel with is the lack of respect for Liang mother's performance. In this way I am afraid the two mutual understanding and good unabated.
④ to find the balance, each playing 30 strokes of the cane
Some of the disputes as a result of complex causes, or a long time, so the facilitator to the specific circumstances of a specific analysis, the dialectical articulation of reasoning, so that they have a sense of identity, to reach a consensus in order to settle the dispute. Guangzhou City and the town of the same village with the garrison on land ownership disputes occur, the years have not resolved. They were invited to the town party secretary. Party secretary in the full understanding of the situation based on his views, he said: "to resolve the issue of land disputes, we have to set the principles of faith, that is, respect history and face reality, mutual understanding and mutual accommodation. Consultations. Land by force draw a red line, the unit has already built a wall, in the use of force, although the troops were not compensation, but they are not yet received land use certificates, but the local to the cardinal principles in mind, the overall situation, to support the forces. draw a red line, but the troops did not use, nor requisition, villagers still new land, in the final of all places. there is no designated red line, but has been used by the forces of land for military facilities are still under the force; use of military facilities for the land if the force change the purpose, can be recovered, you can use the joint development. "Both sides accepted the secretary's views, quickly reached an agreement. Outstanding issues of land ownership dispute is finally resolved.
⑤生智urgency, "bite the text" ride height.
In a train, a woman selling ice cream, first called the Second angle five-block, the latter also known as five cents a piece. A woman to buy ice cream, said: "in front of the Second Kakugo sell, sell back the Pentagon, there is such a business it?" The vendor said: "This is called a penny goods, how can the Second and the Kakugo Compared to the Pentagon, my ice-cream authentic goods. "Provisional a meeting of the sentence:" Tiger of the Palestinian-qing (Northeast words "stupid" means). "face of women to buy ice-cream"唰"to the dark negative loudly said: "This is how you say? you say who was responsible for" the Palestinian QING tiger "of?" All of a sudden傻了眼seller, the buyer called the more interesting talks, a war about to break out. At this time struck a passenger, said: "The eldest sister, she said that the ice-cream" bitterness "to the Palestinian-ching, and is not to say that you" Tiger Palestinian Betty, "the." Vendor also echo said: "I am talking about ice cream, not to say that you, I am sorry I did not say clearly. "next to people who also said:" Just now, she said "bitter" instead of "tiger". "buyers that they would gradually become cloudy to sunny, a sunny face again:" Oh, I want to deaf ears, how playing the bifurcated, I am sorry! "the seller to圆场who smiled gratefully and leave the territory.
⑥ Qiao Table heart, humor and arms.
A unit of a pair of middle-aged couple, married nearly 10 years ~ straight good relations between the two sides. But more recently, in the issue of social entertainment, the two conflicts have taken place, no one who说服不了. From the four corners to a quarrel and then scolding, much uproar in town, facing the breakup of a serious crisis. In the leadership and concern for friends and family, under the persuasion and persuasion, they finally sit down calmly to each other "pledge one's allegiance," but no one wants to open "guilty plea", the man finally opened the first of four, said: "We are in the struggle Seeking unity, survival and development, today, to get into such a peaceful democracy, a new phase of consultation is the result of our joint efforts, it did not come easily ah! "is concise, short love words long. Woman's potential to take over the thread of her conversation also said: "Yes ah! Precisely because it is not easy to come by, so we should treasure this excellent situation of stability and unity!" Husband and wife is to put all this in, Yizhuang also harmonic, fun dialogue each paid a heart, understanding, and resolve the contradictions, make up.
3. "圆场" seven common skills
In social activities, can be provided in a timely manner an appropriate level, is the avoidance of loss of face is one of the major principles圆场. However, what steps