charity begin at home （博爱始于自家）这是个西方谚语 我是反方三辩,求资料.

charity begin at home （博爱始于自家）这是个西方谚语 我是反方三辩,求资料.
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First,charity means love and being merciful.So may be we will come up with a question that when and where our consciousness of love begin to come into being?Perhaps most people will respond that it is their parents who first taught them what love is,which is a perfect proof of "charity begin at home".
Second,we may make an assumption that if someone even do not love his families,then will you believe that he will hold charity toward others?From my point of view,the answer is no and so does anyone who has a little commen sence on humanity.
Third,education is the key factor affects our ethics.As is known to all,our parents are our first teacher.Their behaviar impressed us in our early years.So what determines someone's personality of charity is what kind of family he or she comes from.
再问： 大神、、、我是反方啊。。。。
再答： 哦，那正方观点你大概参详一下，想想如何反击吧。Here is the opposite views. 1.It is true that everyone learns what love is from their family.But charity means more than love.It should be defined as showing mercy to everyone else even when he is a stranger or an enemy.You can't denied that being kindhearted to someone you don't know is more challenging than that to your relationships. 2.Charity represents a higher level of morality while affection toward families is just a kind of instinct. What decides one's ethics is the education he or she receives,and it is schools and the society itself that largely make the children know what the real world is.