帮我翻译tisht lipped elders used to say ,"it is not what you wan

帮我翻译tisht lipped elders used to say ,"it is not what you wan It is not what you say but what you do-- It is not you say but that what you heart and do to counts China now is not what it used to be.中文应该怎么翻译啊? I feel about you is not what it used to be是啥意思呀? What you say is f_____ ,it is not ture. What you always used to say. The city is not what it used to be.used to be在这里这么解释? I do not know what you mean to say is, It is not what you say is right but what you do _______ is o In life, it is not so much what you say that c it is how you it is up to you帮我翻译一下