英语翻译When Stephen Geyser’s three children were growing up,he

英语翻译
When Stephen Geyser’s three children were growing up,he told them stories about bow his grandfather,a banker,lost all in the 1930s,but did not lose sight of what he valued most.In one of the darkest times when his strong-minded grandfather was nearly penniless,he loaded his family into the car and took them to see family members in Canada with a belief,“There are more important things in life than money.”The tale took on a new meaning recently when Mr.Guyer downsized to a small house from a more expensive and comfortable one.He was worried that his children ,a daughter,15,and twins,22,would be upset.To his surprise,they weren’t Instead,their reaction echoed （共鸣） their great-grandfather’s.What they cared about was how warm the people were in the house and how much of their heart was accessible.Many parents are finding family stories have surprising power to help children through hard times.Storytelling expects say the phenomenon reflects a growing interest in telling tales,evidenced by a rise in a storytelling events and festivals.A university study of 65 families with children aged from 14 to 16 found kids’ ability to retell parents’ stories was linked to a lower rate of anger and anxiety.The trick is telling the stories in a way children can hear.We’re not talking here about the kind of story that begins,“When I was a kid,I walked to school every day uphill both ways,barefoot in the snow.” Instead,we should choose a story suited to the child’s needs,and make eye contact（接触） to create “a personal experience”,We don’t have to tell children what they should take from the story and what the moral is.

当斯蒂芬 盖泽尔家的三个孩子都长大了,他告诉孩子们关于他的祖父,一个银行家的故事.他在20世纪30年代,失去了所有,但并没有忽视他最珍视.最黑暗时期中的一次,意志坚强的祖父几乎身无分文,他将他的家人带上车,怀着信念去见加拿大的亲戚, “在生活中,还有比金钱更重要的事情. ”这个故事最近有了新的含义,盖泽尔先生从一所昂贵舒适的房子迁到一所小房子.他担心他的孩子们,一个15岁的女儿和一对22岁的双胞胎,会感到失望.出乎他的意料,他们却没有如此,他们的反应和他们的曾祖父引起共鸣（如出一辙）.他们关心的是在房子里人们是多么的温暖,他们的心多么的容易交接.很多父母发现,家族故事具有神奇的力量,来帮助孩子渡过难关.讲故事专家说,这种现象反映出了在讲故事上的兴趣增长,这被讲故事的活动和节日的增长所印证.一所大学关于65个家庭14岁至16岁孩子的研究表明,孩子复述父母故事的能力与较低的愤怒和焦躁有关.这个技巧是要用孩子能听进去的方式讲故事.我们这里指的不是以“当我还是个孩子的时候,我每天都要走路去学校 还有爬坡 冬天赤脚在大雪里行走”这种开头的故事.相反的我们应该选择一种投其所好的故事 跟他们进行眼神的交流,从而创造出一种使他们觉得像是亲身经历一样的感觉.我们并不需要告诉孩子们他们必须从故事中学到什么或者是这个故事有什么寓意.